Gentle Reminders

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Friends, I must ask for your forgiveness. I had big plans to write a thoughtful post this evening after work but in all honesty, today was a very long day. The island is abuzz and there are people everywhere. Some nice. Some not so nice. My patience was tested today… several times. I stumbled upon this photo from one of my favorite shelter publications, Lonny, and thought I would share it with all of you. Simple and so spot on and exactly the reminder I need this evening. The Sister Parish fabric gets me every time too!

Wishing you and yours a wonderful weekend!

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And just like that, 34. Not quite sure how it happened. It seems like just yesterday I was planning for how life would be in my 30s. And you know what, it is nothing like I planned at all. Alleluia! I have learned a great deal from the hardships of my late 20s and am just so grateful for where this life has taken me.

33 has always been my lucky number so last year’s birthday was a big one for me. As you know from reading this little blog, I decided to make a big life change and move home to my little island 30 miles out to sea. And what a year it has been! I have had the opportunity to pursue two passions… event planning/catering and interior design. I put my passport to good use and checked off a dream destination… Istanbul. I met new friends I couldn’t imagine life without. Damn 33… you were good to me.

So here is to 34. Can’t wait to see what’s in store for this lady!

** The image above is an early birthday gift I bought for myself at this year’s Spring Sweep sale at the Nantucket Artists Association. I have been lusting after one of Alison Cooley Hall’s pieces for years and when I saw this one, entitled Wish Well, I just knew it had to be part of my collection!

A New Day

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Happy April 1st! I couldn’t be more thrilled to say good-bye to March. What a long month, don’t you think? Things on the island are starting to pick up, which makes me so excited for the months ahead. I have been doubting my decision to move home these past few months (the weather certainly hasn’t helped) but this past weekend reaffirmed to me that home is where I need to be. And there is so much to look forward to. One of my absolute favorite weekends here is Daffodil Weekend (more on this to come, I promise) and this morning I saw some little daffodil heads peeking out of the ground. Alleluia!

Movie Monday

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There are oh so many things to love about this film: the delightful cast, which includes just a few of my favorites from Downton Abbey (Maggie Smith and Penelope Wilton); the setting of the Pink City (Jaipur, India); and last but not least the beautiful story of starting over in a foreign and exotic land.

One of my favorite scenes is when Judi Dench’s character Evelyn is consoling Sonny (Deb Patel from Slumdog Millionaire), who is beside himself for having to walk away from his true love because of his mother’s wishes. Evelyn makes it quite simple and reminds him “you can have anything you want… you just need to stop waiting on someone to tell you that you deserve it.” So very true indeed!

The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel has one of the most touching endings ever. The characters all come to terms with their own shortcomings and set out to begin anew… the very reason they left Britain in the beginning. “The only real failure is the failure to try. And the measure of success is how we cope with disappointment, as we always must. We came here and we tried. All of us in our different ways. We get up in the morning, we do our best, nothing else matters. But it’s also true that the person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing. All we know about the future is that it will be different. But perhaps what we fear is that it will be the same. So we must celebrate the changes. Because as someone once said everything will be alright in the end and if it’s not alright, then trust me, it’s not yet the end.”

And the Award Goes To…

Me for the title of worst blogger ever. Seriously, I was beyond excited in January to let you all know that I finally found the courage to share my voice with all of you. And just like that, I lost it. I started to doubt everything around me… the choice I made to leave Boston and move to this little island. And I didn’t know what to say.

But here I am ready to tell you all the truth, I’m scared. Scared of tomorrow and where my life is going. Scared of being alone. Scared of my finances. Scared. But after watching Ben’s speech last night as he accepted the award for Best Director for my favorite film of the year, I realized one very important thing… “It doesn’t matter how you get knocked down in life, all that matters is that you get up.”  And so here I am promising to all of you (granted there are probably two of you reading this now) that I will get up. That I will share with you my thoughts, my fashion finds, my favorite recipes, my favorite travel spots. Me. I hope you enjoy the ride because I’m excited to start again.

I’ll see you here tomorrow!

PS – Should you want to hear about anything in particular, you just let me know.

Well hello there…

After many starts and stops to this little blog, I have decided to finally make it official. So welcome! I am really glad you stopped by. I guess we should start with introductions. My name is Maybeth but those closest to me call me May. If I had to sum myself up in just a few words it would be that I am a lover of many things…. and nothing gives me greater pleasure than planning the perfect weekend getaway or finding the ultimate hostess gift.

About six months ago, I made a rather big decision to leave city life and return home to my little island 30 miles out to sea. One may ask, why would I do such a thing? The simple answer is this… I felt like I was going through the motions. These past six months have certainly been a transition and I am not really sure if I’ve moved away from going through the motions of a sometimes mundane life but I can tell you this, 2013 is my year to live. And I hope this blog will allow me to share with you just how well I am doing.

What I hope to capture is quite simple. I want to share with you all what I love. I hope you enjoy!